I hate when words get a bad reputation. The word isn’t wrong, it’s the way people use them. Cause I think words are fun to use and to play with, especially when I’m trying to write comedy material. One word I’m fond of is “gay”. I use it to describe anything lame, silly, or useless. And I know that sounds bad, but I don’t think gay people are lame, silly, or useless. Actually, I find most straight people to be much more lame and useless. Gay guys do tend to be silly though.
I have definitely used the word gay to describe a person that had nothing to do with whether he has ever sucked a dick or not. Should I get pissed when someone says, “You know Albert, that gay Mexican guy.” ?